The Loud Divorce Series
Not every struggling marriage goes quiet. Some are loud, full of arguments, slammed doors and the same fight on repeat. The Loud Divorce is for the couples who are still fighting and the people who are in the middle of a turbulent divorce.
The noise isn’t always a sign that it’s over. Often it’s a sign that something still matters, that two people are trying to be heard and don’t know how. As a behaviour specialist, I break down why couples fight the way they do, what’s really underneath the arguments, and how to tell the difference between conflict that can lead to change and conflict that is wearing you both down.
In this series you’ll find practical, honest guidance on why the same arguments keep happening, when fighting turns into contempt, what to say (and what to stop saying) in the heat of the moment, and how to move through a messy separation without losing yourself.
If your marriage or divorce is anything but quiet, you’re in the right place.
Ten Years Loud.
A Novel of Two Minds at War
Ten Years Loud
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Telsa and Brad have been married for ten years. They have two children, a packed calendar, and a house that runs on logistics. Somewhere between the school drop-offs, the weekend sport and the social invitations, they stopped being a couple.
Telsa works full time, then comes home to the cooking, the cleaning, the shopping and the bills. If she doesn’t pay them, nobody does. She is tired in a way sleep doesn’t fix, and she is running out of ways to ask for help. Brad works long hours, trains and rides with his group. He believes he is carrying his share. To him, every request sounds like criticism, so he argues back.
Neither of them is the villain. Both of them need to be right.
When the marriage ends, the fighting does not. Lawyers, family and friends are pulled in, and the divorce becomes a battlefield. Told in alternating chapters, Telsa and Brad each give their side of the same arguments, and the reader sees how one moment can mean something completely different to each of them.
Loud Divorce asks what all the fighting is protecting. If you’ve ever been the one doing everything, or the one who feels like nothing is ever enough, this story shows what sits underneath the noise, and what it takes for two people to finally be heard.
The Loud Marriage Playbook
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If you picked this up, something at home is loud. Maybe the arguments. Maybe the sighing. Maybe the silence after an argument, which can be the loudest thing of all.
I want to say something first. Fighting does not make you a bad partner, and it does not make you a failure. Most couples who fight a lot are still trying. They have not found a better way yet. This playbook is that better way, in plain words you can use tonight.
You do not need to read it in order. Read the part that fits where you are.
One more thing. If you are afraid of your partner, if you feel controlled, or if anyone has been hurt, this playbook is not the right tool. Please talk to someone who can help.
The Loud Divorce Playbook
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Not every struggling marriage goes quiet. Some are loud, full of arguments, slammed doors and the same fight on repeat. The
Loud Divorce is for the couples who are still fighting and the people who are in the middle of a turbulent divorce.
The noise isn’t always a sign that it’s over. Often it’s a sign that something still matters, that two people are trying to be heard and don’t know how. As a behaviour specialist, I break down why couples fight the way they do, what’s really underneath the arguments, and how to tell the difference between conflict that can lead to change and conflict that is wearing you both down.
In this series you’ll find practical guidance on why the same arguments keep happening, when fighting turns into contempt, what to say (and what to stop saying) in the heat of the moment, and how to move through a messy separation without losing yourself.
If your marriage or divorce is anything but quiet, you’re in the right place.